Located in Mid City.
The late great Gil Scott Heron…i couldn’t have people thinking Drake made this song.
| So there have been a few movies recently aimed at helping us women understand men and thus better attract one, if that is your sexual orientation. The movies make women look pretty desperate and poor decision makers when it comes to men. |
| In general I think the odds are less in your favor after college because you aren't in close proximity with so many available like minded guys at the same time anymore. |
| But at the same time I listen to love songs and watch romantic movies and want those things. It seems unrealistic to find guys that embody those things. Afterall, women write these characters based on our fantasies. But I don't think we should give up. Plus the characteristics desired like honesty, ambition, faithfulness, spontaneity, love shouldn't be hard. |
| At the same time so many women have lowered their standards and still single they stand so whats the trick? |
“I know I’m not perfect
-and I don’t live to be-
but before you start pointing fingers…
make sure you hands are clean!”
— Thomas L. Masson
When I was in 1st grade I wanted to be a doctor and then I realized needles and blood made me uneasy. Then later in life I thought I wanted to be a psychologist because I wanted to help people. The unified theme is that I always wanted to help people. Then in college I settled on real estate developer because that was they way I was going to transform disenfranchised communities like the one I grew up in and shrink the economic divide so that people didn’t have to struggle the way I did growing up. I didn’t realize I was poor until I went to a private highschool as the token poor kid in sea of wealthy kids. I knew I didn’t want to live check to check and be a slave to the dollar as an adult. Even with lots of work and success….here I am still a slave to the dollar and not even the owner of the dollar.
If I could be anything…as one of the Beatles said…I would be happy. If money was no issue I would write, have a farm, live off the grid, maybe have a winery, refurbish homes stone by stone for fun, travel around the work, and spend time with my family (well some of them). I wish I had the answers to get closer to my happy.
— Lauryn Hill
whyyyyyy!?!
Chicago
Beautiful!
Jerusalem Food And Liquor by C McSheridan on Flickr.